May
13
I recently took a holiday and visited Scotland for some walking. If you’ve never been to the Highlands, I would seriously put it on your must-do list. The Glen Coe and Nevis national park has some of the most stunning scenery the British Isles have to offer.
Anyway, Amelia and I decided to climb Ben Nevis and reading up about possible routes, we opted for taking the more challenging Carn Mor Dearg route from the North, which all the guide books said really did the mountain justice. The Tourist route from the south doesn’t give decent views of the immense North Face and is really just a steady plod up a well worn path, rather than an exciting scramble across rocky ridges to the top, which we were up for.
However, the advisor in the visitor centre felt it necessary to warn us of the seriousness of the route. Our guide book suggested it was a 10-12 hour round trip, Amelia and I explained we were fairly fit and he said a fit person should do it in 8-10 hours, but it would be “a hard days walking”. I made up my mind that we would be at the lower end of that time scale and we set off at a brisk pace to attack the mountain.
Now, I’m sure Amelia will reluctantly agree with me that we both have slight issues with our ego and admitting we are struggling. So, it wasn’t until much later in the day that we both admitted to each other that that first section had nearly destroyed us both and had us worrying for the work ahead. We’d pushed a really hard pace and overtaken loads of people along the way, but both of us were having those negative thoughts (you know, the doubts you get during a long CrossFit WOD).
I reflected later on those thoughts and considered the lies that my mind had come up with: “I can’t do this”…..”I need to slow down”……”I’ve bitten off more than I can chew”. Why do our minds give us these unhelpful thoughts and seemingly torment us, rather than positive ones that will provide the support we need? Regardless of the complex reasons for this, I believe that one of the most important rewards of doing CrossFit training, is the ability to ignore the thoughts when they come, seeing them for what they are (BS), and carry on regardless. This ability can then be applied throughout the rest of our lives (work, families, relationships etc.).
Towards the end of the final push to the summit, I was really struggling again, and was searching inside for some inspiration. The saying “One Step at a Time” came to me, and I realised I was focusing far too much on how far I felt I had left to go, rather than being present and just focusing on the next bit ahead. I’ve done a bit of meditation of the years, and was able to use that to refine my focus, and the difference was dramatic. By not wasting valuable energy in stressing about what lay ahead, I freed up my efforts to tackling the next step only, and the work became easier and more enjoyable. As it turned out, I’d underestimated how far we’d climbed. Mist had rolled in and when I thought we’d reached a plateau a few hundred metres from the top, we’d actually reached the finish and were greeted by the site of the old observatory on top of the mountain.
So, the moral of the story? Our negative thoughts are unhelpful and often completely unrealistic. Chose to ignore them and focus on taking the next positive action.
Our final time, by the way, was just over 7 hours. The guide book simply didn’t take into account that we are CrossFit !!!
Love this story and the real life moral to it! This is attitude is what makes training at CrossFit Avon such an amazing experience… you understand when we sometimes hit that wall and it is great to have evidence that even you have those moments (very occasionally)! We always get there but you are right we need to focus on the good vibes and enjoy the moment.
Hugh will tell me to “get a room” but THANKS Andrew for being totally awesome! And many congrats to both of you for completing the climb and in such a fast time!
Kate..
Totally amazing what you have done Andrew, not just with the climb but with CrossFit Avon…..remember me, the old knacker that couldn’t even do a sit up and now I’m lifting heavy weights and wanting to compete!? You have built something that is different and changed people’s lives and it’s absolutely awesome….all down to you….take the compliments because you deserve them xxx
This was a fantastic walk and beautiful trip. another transferable Crossfit skill that was really highlighted for me during our struggles up Ben Nevis was the power of being motivated by virtue of being part of a team.
As Andrew says there were times when we both felt like we wanted to stop and it was all to much. For me this came really early on; my legs were shot from multiple heavy squats two days before, it was baking hot and Andrew seemed to be determined to go at lightning pace. My head started messing with me: “This pain is too much, my legs are screaming” “I’ll be doing myself damage” ” we don’t have enough water” blah blah blah.
Then new thoughts came in to my head; I knew that climbing Ben Nevis was one of the things Andrew had always wanted to achieve in life, suddenly my motivator was to do it for him. I was going to be damned if I was going to be the reason he didn’t get to do Ben Nevis that day, I was going to be damned if my moaning was going to be the reason he didn’t get to enjoy climbing it that day. For about 20 minutes I did it for him, I made myself smile, catch up and keep moving. Guess what;
1) Everything is easier with a smile on your face
2) As soon as I stopped focussing on my leg pain they stopped hurting so much
3) 20 mins later I was really enjoying a really great challenging hike.
I think this is one of the reasons why team WODS can often get the best out of us. Different things motivate us and sometimes it’s that we don’t want to be the one that lets the team down. Or we realise that other people, our friends, are relying on us and we want to step up to the mark. Or the fun of the collective experience and appreciating the cheer on from your mate, knowing that at some point you will get to repay them by cheering them on when they’re struggling.